Governance
Pima’tisowin e’ mimtotaman
Danser Pour La Vie | We Dance For Life
Ebkwaataagezejig Council
Grandmother Advisory Council
In the Anishinaabe language, Ebkwaataagezejig describes coming together to tell stories, advise, and give information on how to look at things. In this way, we are not telling people how to live or imposing colonial standards. Instead, we humbly acknowledge that we do not know it all, but we have lived to a degree and can listen without judgement. Nikwaataagzidjik, meaning speaking with an open mind, is one of the words guiding our work.
The circle of Ebkwaataagezejig will provide guidance through knowledge of their respective traditions, ceremonies, and language, and connection to their lands and territories. Each of the grandmothers on Ebkwaataagezejig also sit on one of the three regional family advisory councils.
Ebkwaataagezejig will bring forth their knowledge and wisdom to ensure that Indigenous culture, traditions, values, spirituality, and all collective aspects of our various ways of life are respected and inclusive. Their wisdom will ensure the work is uplifting, life affirming, and healing for all Peoples.
She served her community of Whitefish River First Nation for nineteen years as a Primary school Educator at Shawanosowe School, and also provided cultural languages-based curriculum. Gloria graduated from Lakehead University’s Native Language Instructor Program. She went on to serve as an Elder in Residence for Lakehead University and Waabnode Cambrian College in providing cultural teachings and traditional counseling for post-secondary students and staff for seven years.
From 2012-2013, Gloria was an integral part of student lifelong learning through Kenjigewin Teg Educational Institute’s. Gloria continues to be one of KTEI’s esteemed Traditional Knowledge Keeper/Faculty Members.
Currently, Gloria is an active member of the Ojibwe Cultural Foundation of Mnidoo Mnising Elders Council. For the past eleven years, she has worked as a Traditional Practitioner with Shkakamik Kwe Health Centre in Sudbury, Ontario providing traditional healing and wellness services for its residents and surrounding First Nations.
Enaabiischigejig
Ontario Regional Family Advisory Council
In Anishnaabemowin Enaabiischigejig roughly translates to “people that come together and form something” to help the ones that have someone that has gone missing or was murdered.
I am a residential school survivor, and a survivor and member of MMIWGT2S+. I lost contact with my parents and siblings which caused me to lose out on love and security with them. That is a very real and sad part of my life. Today, I have three grandchildren who I love and try to support as much as possible. They live with me and I try to ensure their lives are different from my childhood. Although this is a struggle at times, I show them that I am strong and teach them strength and to never give up on anything.
I enjoy camping, fishing, sewing, and walking. I love to listen to stories told by Elders. I currently work at the day care in Wabaseemoong First Nation, which is where I am a band member. I am honoured and proud to sit on the Ontario Advisory Council and am learning more ways to help heal our pain. I believe when we share our knowledge and our experiences, we can heal not only our own pain but help others that are dealing with similar tragedies.
Miigwetch Pamaa minow.
My maternal grandmother and I are very close and she has been a guide for me and a mentor throughout my life. She is the center of my world and I love her very much. I am a second-generation survivor of the IRS and a family member of the MMIWGT2S+. I am very honoured to be asked to partake in the Ontario Regional Advisory Council as the Youth representative. I want to share my creative ideas and thoughts about how the We Dance For Life can attract and keep the interest of the youth in Ontario. I enjoy contributing to the group conversations and help with all tasks as needed and hope to share with other youths.
Elwood is Ojibway and of the Bear Clan and was born and raised in Henvey Inlet. He is a father of seven daughters, one son, four step-sons, and a step-daughter, who range in age from 6 months to 33 years, and is the proud grandfather of 8 grandchildren.
In addition to his home responsibilities, Elwood is an Eagle Staff carrier and a Rain Dance Chief. He has been an Eagle staff carrier since 2013 and rain danced for over fourteen years before being gifted a Rain Dance Lodge. Elwood enjoys giving back to the community and remains involved in his role as Captain of the Fire Rescue Team in Henvey Inlet, and a semi-retired Forest firefighter. He also continues to work in health support for Residential School survivors.
Elwood has committed time to work on the National Awareness Campaign for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls with the Ontario Regional Advisory Council. Elwood lost his mother and his sister in 1995, when he was 30 years old. He continues to seek justice for them and uses his lived experiences and wisdom to help others.
Quebec & Nunavut Regional Family Advisory Council
When Lisa was 7 years old, her mother went missing in Akwesasne, a Mohawk community that straddles the borders of Quebec, Ontario, and the United States. Lisa’s mother was missing for seven weeks when her decomposed remains were found September 16, 1988. Since the disappearance and death of her mother, Lisa overcame many hardships and struggles in her young adult life. Dealing with depression and abandonment issues, anxiety and a feeling of no self-worth were some of the biggest battles. Lisa felt like there was no hope and that no one cared and attempted to take her own life at the age of 16.
There is no love that can replace or fulfill that of a mother’s love.
When children lose a parent, it changes the entire fabric of time and so many things are left to unravel. When a child no longer has their parent whom they would look to for advice, how to conduct oneself, love, acceptance, guidance, and spirituality, many issues and symptoms arise. It has been Lisa’s experience that this manifested to a point where she created a life of mere survival. To survive, choices were made, and more times than not, those choices ended up being ones of trial and error.
Today, Lisa is a professional chef and entrepreneur who has a passion for creating healthy and good cuisine. She focuses on Healing through plant-based medicine and foods and is a positive role model for her family, community, and others.
Lisa continues to advocate on behalf of children of the missing and murdered and that they also not be forgotten and the need to acknowledge how deeply their lives are impacted and affected by the loss of a parent.
As an Indigenous woman, I have faced many hardships throughout my life, but I am still here and have strength to help my people. I am a survivor of both domestic and sexual violence. In 2014, I lost a loved one. She was someone I looked up to, who provided me with guidance, and who cared for me in a foster family capacity.
My experiences have made me passionate about helping others through their healing journey. I am currently working as a Victim Services Coordinator through the First People Justice Center of Montreal.
Wawahtiw
Western Regional Family Advisory Council
Saskatchewan, Manitoba, Alberta, British Columbia, Yukon, Northwest Territories
Prairie is an advocate for her community and is passionate about creating a voice for her Indigenous people. She has worked and served her Indigenous community in the city of Edmonton since 2005. She has worked with many Indigenous nonprofit agencies and provided permanent housing supports to Indigenous families.
Her own healing journey was fueled by having to work through the trauma of losing a loved one. She became aware of the need to find traditional healing and supports for MMIWGT2S+ families and friends affected by this epidemic.
Prairie believes that having a strong supportive community, ceremony, and loving allies will improve the health and wellness of those who have lost or continue to search for their loved ones.
Most recently working on an IGBA toolkit with the Province of BC
Happy Charles, Margaret’s mother, went missing in April of 2017. The family continues to search for answers as to where she may be. They grew closer due to this tragedy, and continue to move forward raising awareness and helping other families with similar experiences. They are currently in the process of trying to open an office specifically for the families of missing loved ones. With this office they plan to give various types of support that have not been properly provided by authorities. These supports include but are not limited to; how to do a ground search, mapping and other aspects of search and rescue as well as mental health supports and resources.
Ma Ma wopayowin Kosita miyo itasowewina ayoci miyo mitehiwin ekwa miyo mamitoneyiciikewin
Core Team
The Core Team – Ma Ma wopayowin Kosita miyo itasowewina ayoci miyo mitehiwin ekwa miyo mamitoneyiciikewin – is comprised of the regional Coordinators and supports that formed Pima’tisowin e’ mimtotaman. Together, as our Cree name indicates, the Core Team is a group that gathers together to make good decisions from good hearts and good minds.
The core team is comprised of MMIWGT2S+ family members who are serving as Regional Coordinators for each of the three regions: Western, Ontario, and Quebec. Working alongside the MMIWGT2S+ family members are known and trusted allies and supports who help facilitate the MMIWGT2S+ kinship-led direction of Pima’tisowin e’ mimtotaman.
The core team is comprised of MMIWGT2S+ family members who are serving as Regional Coordinators for each of the three regions: Western, Ontario, and Quebec. Working alongside the MMIWGT2S+ family members are known and trusted Indigenous supports and allies who help facilitate the MMIWGT2S+ kinship-led direction of Pima’tisowin e’ mimtotaman.
For over 27 years, Meggie has been a passionate and relentless advocate for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women, Girls, Trans, and Two-Spirit (MMIWGT2S+) and their relations. She has experienced the loss of four family members and has worked tirelessly to honour her sister, Biiskwaa-noodin Kwe baa, by sharing the love and memories she imparted. Sonya baa set the sisterhood bar high. She was intelligent, kind, gentle, and funny. She taught me to love deeply and to forgive often.
Meggie’s healing journey has fuelled her desire for truth and justice and taught her the importance of working with families from a place of trust. She has turned her attention to the healing journey of families and supporting their paths to grieve and heal from traumatic loss. She is dedicated to assisting the families in honouring the spirits of their loved ones and believes transformative change grows from grassroots communities working together.
Meggie is writing a book, First Nations and All Our Relations (1764 – present), that traces the collective ancestry of the the Anishnaabe people exodus from Michigan into Manitoulin Island. In addition to honouring this collective remembrance, the proceeds of the book will support the placement of permanent grave markers and the continued upkeep of First Nations cemeteries on Manitoulin Island.
I grew up in Bkejwanong territory but also spent time on my mother’s reserve of Onyota’a:ka Oneida of the Thames #41 and London where I continued my education, also located in Southwestern Ontario.
My education and background are a combination of the arts, including a diploma in photography, and social service work as a receptionist and outreach worker serving the London urban Indigenous population.
I am honoured to be working and supporting the MMIWGT2S+ families on their journey to pay tribute to their loved ones.
Gmiigwetchwendaami naakii’yiing ki dedbinwe debendaagoziyiing mikanaak mnising.
We are grateful to work in the territory of many nations across Turtle Island.